Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People

Angella Nazarian: Visionary women is a volunteer run organization And I know that every single person who is here is giving their time to one organization or another and the fact that you have nine million volunteers and you were talking about the relationship between
volunteerism and willingness And that it’s through willingness that you
uplift your consciousness, if I’m reporting you correctly, or I’m understanding it. In some ways, talking about how it could be a doorway to becoming a bigger person than who you are. Sadhguru: See.. Before we come to women, first thing is visionary. What a vision means is, say everybody has desires. Desire is an incremental way of enhancing our life. Today you desire, I must have a home, tomorrow your desire, I must have this money, tomorrow, you desire something else. These are incremental ways of
arranging and rearranging our lives which are needed to do a few things. When you say I’m a visionary, what you’re saying is, I have a larger desire which is not about just incremental improvement of my life. Desire is about me, always. Vision is an all-inclusive process. So this itself is a phenomenal thing,
if people instead of having desires, if they have a vision. Vision is always all-inclusive. Desire is personal. Desire leads to incremental changes and improvements. Vision can transform the whole situation. (Music) (Laughter) I like music. (Laughter) So, about willingness,
because you said you’re a volunteer. To be a volunteer, a volunteer means somebody who is doing something willingly, right? There’s no other compulsion. There are no financial compulsions.
There are no social compulsions. There is no something else. You want to do something willingly. So when you’re a willing participant right now,
you’re a volunteer. I’m asking all of you, right now, are you compelled to be here or are you here voluntarily? Audience : Voluntarily Sadhguru: Oh, thank you Because I have spoken to conscripted people also. I have spoken in the prisons,
I have spoken in many places. So you are here willingly. You are doing something willingly,
is the fundamental of your joy, isn’t it so? Hello? However simple or stupid or idiotic activity it is, ‘I am doing something willingly’
makes a world of difference, isn’t it so? Hello? The difference between heaven and hell is just this. You are doing something willingly, that’s your heaven. You are doing something unwillingly, that’s your hell. Hmm? We have already taken on attitudes
what we like and what we don’t like. I like this person, I don’t like this person. Now with this person, I will do things willingly. With this person, I will do things unwillingly. This may be two people, two aspects of life,
two communities, two nations, two.. many things. This I will do willingly, this I do unwillingly. This means, I have decided in my mind,
this is good, this is bad. When I hear, even on national news channels, good guys and bad guys .. it just.. Once you have this kind of thing,
you are going to be disastrous to the planet. It’s just a question of time. The moment you decide this is a good person,
this is a bad person, this is gone deep into American society. No. There are no good people and bad people. Everybody is oscillating between the two. If you create a very pleasant wonderful atmosphere,
everybody behaves wonderfully. If you create an unpleasant atmosphere,
a whole lot of people act nasty. Yes or no? There are joyful people and miserable people, but
there are no good people and bad people. (Applause) The moment we think we are good, we are entitled to destroy the bad, isn’t it? Oh, we’ve been destroying a lot of people for a long time, time to stop that. Because.. human beings are in different
levels of experience and understanding. Variety of people. Anybody who’s not like you is obviously bad, isn’t it? Isn’t it so? Those who are not like me must be bad people. Because the basis of goodness and what you think is goodness is decided by you. No, you have no business to do that. Willing means this. I’m just willing. I’m a hundred percent yes to life. I am not yes to this one, no to this one. No, I am just yes and yes to life. If you are a hundred percent yes to life,
you are a volunteer. You have become a willing life. You have become so willing that
you have no will of your own. People ask me
‘Sadhguru, how do you operate with all these people, all kinds of horrible questions they’re asking,
they’re doing this, they’re doing that?’ I said ‘My life is not about them. It’s about me’ It’s about how I am. This is about me. It doesn’t matter how they are, that’s their choice. But how I am is my choice. This is my way. No matter what they do. I’m like this. Because I have not given that freedom to anybody
that somebody can freak me, somebody can make me angry, somebody can make me happy, somebody can make me unhappy. These privileges I kept to myself. It’s time you do that too. Because if somebody else can decide what can happen within you right now, isn’t this the ultimate slavery? Hmm? Isn’t this? Someone else can decide what should happen within you, what happens around you of course,
so many people decide, hmm? What happens around us is not hundred percent ours, but what happens within me must be my making,
isn’t it? Right now, just about anybody can freak anybody
because they are not volunteers. They are unwilling. Volunteering means you have no will of your own. You can do whatever is needed. You know, we are a volunteer organization, this means all kinds of people .. (Laughs) Most of them are not qualified
for the jobs that they’re doing. (Laughter) And I cannot fire them because they’re volunteers. (Laughter) Angella Nazarian: It’s true. Sadhguru: So people keep coming up to me on a daily basis, ‘Sadhguru, I can’t work with this person,
she is so horrible, I can’t do it’ I tell them ‘See in this world, this is the sort of people who exist. like this, like this, like this, like this,
this is the kind of people there are. But if you want to work with ideal people, you must go to heaven and today. But if you think, what you’re doing is very significant, you must learn to work with all these horrible people. This is how the world is. If you think what you’re doing is very significant, you learn to work with all kinds of people. You will see, horrible people will do wonderful things. Yes? But if you want to work with ideal people,
you won’t find any. I haven’t found one yet. (Laughter) There’re all kinds of … mixed bags but (laughs) if you are willing, that you are not yes and no, yes to one, no to another, you’re simply one big yes, you will find a way. Angella Nazarian: Thank you so much. I always say that the resistance to life.. (Applause)

100 thoughts on “Sadhguru on How To Never Get Angry or Bothered By People

  • I so need to learn this, everyone since moving..pisses me off. I lack kind people in my life and it bothers me, probably shouldn't, but why people choose to be vile, hurtful, or unkind seems to affect my moods.

  • I have always wondered.
    How come everyone that is attending these speeches are always recording with their cell phones?
    I would like to see Sadguru in person, for example.
    These people are there in person yet they are watching him on a smaller screen than I am.

  • Learn to work with horrible people, and pointing towards the crowd of audience. 😂😀👍 he is very true inspirer, motivator and a wonderful great guru for this current world, jai sadguru 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • Tudo tretas: o que é que a nossa autonomia da vontade tem a ver com bondade ou maldade? Nada! É tudo tão relativo que todas as respostas estão corretas.

  • I was just physically assaulted it was horrible it was by an older Spanish woman who felt it was ok to push me hard continuously, my neck and back are in Spasm and I am in alot of pain, they think they can break the law and say they are Spanish they can do what they want and the Police will not touch them because they are Spanish. I felt so shocked, shaken, upset was crying, I felt helpless, we did not have a translator to go to the Police. But how do you not let things like this bother and upset you?????

  • Is curse really effect us
    My aunty give curse my whole family without any reason when she is angry or when she and my uncle clashes together then she start giving curse to the entire family does it will really effect us we havent done anything wrong with her but she still give us curse on their husband and wifes silly quarells
    Please help

  • What is the significance of worshiping " Pitr "
    If one does not worship people say that they haunt the family with mishappenings.

    Plz shed some light. In any coming video.

  • You can never get to the state of never being bothered by anything or anybody. You'd have to be in a coma. The best you can do is realize that these things are part of life and part of the human experience. You accept them as inevitable and then you have them in perspective. This will enable you to blunt the impact and deal more effectively with these feeling s when they happen.

  • I see where’s he’s going. But u would like to see his Netflix history. Or recommendations. What does he find funny? He never fully laughs.

  • There are joyful people and miserable people. How true! There is nothing new in what he says, but what he says is filled with much heart and understanding for this world

  • Of course there are good and bad people… but many people can change. Be careful what you say! We must have a moral compass. Surely you agree a pedo child killer is a bad person, a dangerous person????

  • That’s my biggest problem I get irritated 😠 real quick I work in the bar industry for about 10 year going on now and people just upset me ignorance. Idk 😐 I just give up. Nobody says please thank you I see that your busy take your time ask for I d why. I’m not drinking. No your at the bar just the argument
    And the nastiness from people but it’s not easy I understand. It’s 100 percent my reaction to react I.choose to react and let someone upset me in the moment. I agree that why I listen to sadguru Joel osteen Ralf smart. Positive up lifting people. But it starts with the person in the mirror

  • Why isn't this at a higher view count. Man I just learned this. I've been doing this for only a while now. Everyone here try this and share this everywhere in the world you are able to thanks by! Is there a way to talk to Sadhguru? I need to tell him some thinks.

  • I'm so blessed to have came across your visions, your teachings, your understanding and knowledge. I 100% know in my conciousness that what you speak is the knowledge we need to seek and your words are what need to become in order to find our way to our true nature. Thank you

  • There's a suggestion @sadhguru please keep your skills limited to India. Because we need it first. Britishers have already looted our invaluable sanskrit granthas which we indians don't know. Also it is a suggestion to readers that please don't get too much attracted to Western world because we are not they. We got our identity. Please.

  • Funny video … Bit contradicting " volunteering " and " no will " as well , when Sadguru spoke in diffrent video of a having vision in life

  • If Dalits thought of just dealing with oppression with reaction, wouldn't it feed the ego of Brahmins and upper castes and would perpetuate Casteism and untouchability, If Dr Ambedkar believed in just reaction based ideology, A Dalit today could never become a Doctor, Engineer,IAS, CM of a state, President of India or even watch this Video.

  • 4:45 "The moment we think we are good, we destroy the bad". Well that is just as mush as like the Quantum Mechanical explanation of the state of a particle. Take the spin of an electron for example. If you don't make a measurement, the state of the spin of the electron is the superposition of the spin up and spin down. In other word, the spin of the electron is simultaneously up and down until you make a measurement. If you make the measurement, you will find out only one of them, up or down. So you create the reality by making a physical measurement. The moment the spin of the electron is up, the state of spin down is destroyed.

  • Look how chill Sadhguru was, when that phone rang and would have annoyed an average person like me 😂🙏

  • Love it and all the things you said sadhguru is absolutely right and please also visit Kathmandu Nepal also and we also need some suggestions and idea god bless you ❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️👍🏻👍🏻😊😍😍🇳🇵

  • Namaste Sadhguru. I really like this video. I have been listening to your speeches from couple of months and from my heart I really started to follow you and your views .. But in this video a word strick my mind so hard that I can't stop myself from asking this question. In this video at around 5:53 minutes you said that we should be willing to live and we should be so willing that we practically have no willing of our own by doing so aren't me giving all the rights to other to control me they could use me for bad think just because I don't have my own willingness. Also like you said willingness to live ( which I think is to do anything which don't hurt or not against any live or living things) then also it will contradict with the previous things you said previously… I might be wrong Sadhguru so I request you to please enlighten me with correct answer… My English is not that good though I guess you can understand my question.

    Thanks regard Arbind Singh

  • I'm not into "gurus". That being said, I still watched the video because of the subject. I agree with 95% of what was said. However, that there are no "bad" people ? I have reservations about that. What would you consider violent psychopaths to be ? Sociopaths and malignant narcissists ? Just people like the rest of us ? This dangerous assumption is why people become their victims. Because the victims mistakenly assume these kind of predatory people can be worked with, can be understanding and interactive to the feedback and needs of others, like average caring people with functional empathy. That simply isn't the truth. They are the predators amongst the general sheep of the human species. Good and bad, in that regards, are necessary constructs that people sometimes ignore or override to their own detriment and peril.

  • I saw a video that is going viral now.. the visarjan of Lord Ganesha.. ur right we play with him enjoy ourselves and throw him.. we are really hopeless …

  • My new favorite person to listen to. Sadhguru, where have you been all my life!? Why have I only just discovered you!😄

  • There are always certain questions strikes my mind which have no answer. Sadhguru always have intellectual yet simple answers to them. Really this man deserves a standing ovation. 👏👏👏

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